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Options For Family Transition Periods


If you have a partner that you have children with, there may be times in your life you go through what may loosely be described as a transition period. It may be that the relationship status is changing. Maybe you have found that your lifestyles aren’t as compatible as you previously thought. Sometimes marriage may be involved, whereas other times you have just been together as an unmarried couple.

During these times when you’re trying to figure things out, there are many options that you can pursue. You can talk to lawyers to look at legal options, you can go to family therapy, you can take some time apart, or you can try to reconcile by looking back at the good times you’ve had.

Talking To Lawyers 

Though it might not necessarily be the first step, if you’re going through a family transition period, it’s not a bad time to talk to a family lawyer. Even if you are amicably splitting from your partner, it’s not necessarily a terrible idea to understand what your legal options are. When it comes to child custody, you don’t want to have any mistakes in your legal record that may not end up being in the child’s best interests.

Going To Family Therapy 

If you plan on trying to keep your family unit together, then going to family therapy could be an early option. Sometimes it takes a little bit of trial and error to find the best therapist to figure family needs, but once you do find a good connection, you might see that the therapist will open up lines of communication that will allow you to reconcile your situation much more efficiently than if you tried to do it on your own.

Taking Some Time Apart 

Another option when it comes to figuring out what to do during family transition periods is to take some time apart. Maybe you want to suggest a trial separation between you and your partner, even if it’s only for a few days or a few weeks. If you find that your life is not better without your partner, then you’ll have more of a reason to try and fix things.

Remembering the Good Times 

And sometimes nostalgia is what’s going to keep you together if your family is going through a rough patch. Get out your old family photo albums. Look at the pictures and videos of you having a good time, and tried to remember what it was that brought you together during those periods. Sometimes it just takes a little bit of hindsight and observation of the past to find out what’s wrong with your current situation. Doing this is a family will open up specific sets of discussions as well.